A Common Body Language in Japanese Culture

There are many cultural differences regarding body language between Japanese culture and American culture. One of the biggest differences is the way of greeting. In Japan, bow is very important when we greet. In a business manner class, we learn how to bow properly. A short shallow bow is rude especially when people bow an older person or someone who has a higher social status. An angle of the bow has to be 30 to 45 degrees as the picture below shows. Also, we have to bend at the waist. Bending at the neck like nodding is also regarded as a rude behavior. Thus, good bow set a good start of communication in Japanese culture.

            In American culture, shaking hands is very important in greeting. We Japanese also shake hands sometimes, but not always. I also realized Americans hug more often than Japanese when they greet. For example, when I met my American boyfriend’s parents for the first time, they hugged me, saying “nice to see you.” I was upset because in Japanese culture, we usually keep some distance to show respect when we meet someone for the first time. Although I felt a little awkward to invade my boyfriend’s parents’ personal space, their smile and hug told me that they welcomed me, so I was happy. I think understanding cultural differences of body language helps communicate more smoothly.